I also think this is wrapped up in our learned beliefs as US Americans that the USA is the best country in the world, so why would you want to leave?? The subtle guilt is not to be dismissed!
Love this! I do find financial barriers to be real obstacles when it comes to meeting visa requirements for ongoing permanent income in the desired destination countries (especially when folks want to move to EU countries). But to your point, the emotional overwhelm, psychological doubt, and guilt will hold people back from making changes that could clear the path. Some folks won't make the leap no matter how strong and wide their financial safety net.
Sadly, especially in the US, the "deservedness" question, the guilt trips, and the misinformed exceptionalism is constantly reinforced. Including in op-eds in mainstream media and warnings from strangers (this happened with alarming frequency once we announced we were emigrating).
It would be a relief to a lot of prospective emigrants if people would mind their own business!
I also think this is wrapped up in our learned beliefs as US Americans that the USA is the best country in the world, so why would you want to leave?? The subtle guilt is not to be dismissed!
Love this! I do find financial barriers to be real obstacles when it comes to meeting visa requirements for ongoing permanent income in the desired destination countries (especially when folks want to move to EU countries). But to your point, the emotional overwhelm, psychological doubt, and guilt will hold people back from making changes that could clear the path. Some folks won't make the leap no matter how strong and wide their financial safety net.
Sadly, especially in the US, the "deservedness" question, the guilt trips, and the misinformed exceptionalism is constantly reinforced. Including in op-eds in mainstream media and warnings from strangers (this happened with alarming frequency once we announced we were emigrating).
It would be a relief to a lot of prospective emigrants if people would mind their own business!