As we navigate this holiday season, I see many of you wrestling with big decisions about your family's future. The current climate in America has many questions about what we want for our children's education, safety, and quality of life. I understand these concerns deeply – they were the same ones that led my family to stay abroad. While scrolling through headlines can feel overwhelming, I want to remind you that seeking a different life for your family isn't about running away but moving toward something better.
Having spent the last 8 years abroad, I've witnessed firsthand how this journey, though challenging, can open up extraordinary possibilities for your children's development, your family's wellbeing, and your personal growth. Yes, the first few months can be difficult (as I recently shared in my article), but the rewards of watching your children thrive in international schools, experiencing a healthier work-life balance, and building a global perspective make it worthwhile.
As we close out 2024, remember that feeling uncertain about such a significant life change is natural. But you're not alone in this. Our community is here to support you, share real experiences, and help you navigate each step. Whether you're just starting to research or ready to make the leap, take this holiday season to envision the life you want for your family. Sometimes, the bravest thing we can do as parents is to choose a different path – one that aligns with our deepest values and aspirations for our children's future.
Your dream of a different life isn't just a dream. It's the first step toward a new reality.
Here for you,
Sonaya
Until next Sunday!
The Real Talk About Moving Abroad
I was struck by the responses to my recent article, "What No One Tells You About Moving Abroad." Your email responses and comments reflected what many of us experience but rarely discuss – the raw, emotional challenges of those first six months abroad.
As someone who has lived this journey, I want you to know that it's normal for this transition to test your resilience in unexpected ways. While we often focus on the practical aspects – finding schools, securing visas, setting up homes – the emotional journey of moving abroad with your family demands just as much attention. As mothers, we naturally put our children's and partners' adjustment first, but I've learned firsthand how crucial it is to fill our cups.
Yes, expat life has seasons, and that challenging first chapter is just the beginning of an incredible story.
If you haven't read the full article yet, you can find it here:
Let's continue this important conversation about the real experience of creating a life abroad.
Kids Corner - Growing Up Global:
🏫 Time-Sensitive Alert for Parents: As we enter 2025, international schools worldwide are already opening their enrollment periods for the 2025/2026 academic year. If you're planning a family move abroad next year, now is the crucial time to begin researching school options for your children. The International Schools Database offers an excellent starting point with its user-friendly "School Match" feature. This tool allows you to input your specific needs – including your budget, preferred curriculum, and desired location – and receive personalized school recommendations.
Many top international schools have limited spaces and competitive admission processes, so early research and applications can significantly improve your chances of securing a spot at your preferred school.
Next week, I’ll share our personal journey as we start the process of finding our second school for the girls in Doha.
In The News:
(Below are links to useful information I’ve found in the news this week)
🌎 Portugal’s Golden Visa Program is NOT ending. Why does this matter? This program allows investors with residence permits, which results in more affordable housing, especially near international schools.
✈ Take advantage of the airline holiday sales and book an extended trip to live like a local in your future city. Look at my video on finding a roundtrip flight to Portugal for under $600.
Happy week! Do hit the ❤️ if you enjoy this Sunday Note.