7 Ways I’ll Never Be the Same After Moving Abroad
From the US to the Middle East
Living abroad changed me in ways I never imagined.
In 2016, I left the U.S. for love, setting off on a journey that has shaped how I see the world, prioritize my health, manage my money, and make space for what truly matters.
Moving abroad has transformed my life, from reinventing my business and starting a family to embracing new cultures and habits.
Here’s how this experience could also open up new possibilities for you.
Let’s explore some of the most impactful changes I’ve experienced and how they could inspire your journey.
1. Freedom to Fully Experience Life
When I moved abroad, I found a new freedom to unplug and travel that I hadn’t realized was possible. In the U.S., where vacation time is often limited to two weeks, it felt nearly impossible to truly disconnect. But here, I take vacations multiple times a year. Whether it’s a quick getaway or a longer adventure, the ability to explore different parts of the world has become a core part of my life.
Why This Matters: Taking regular breaks from work and routine isn’t just a luxury; it’s necessary for a balanced, fulfilled life. Imagine feeling free to pause, recharge, and truly experience what the world has to offer. When you create space for travel and rest, you bring more energy, creativity, and presence into every area of your life.
2. A New Relationship with Money
Living abroad has completely shifted my view on money. In the U.S., debt is often normalized, but since moving, I’ve seen money as a tool rather than a source of stress. I’m much more intentional about my spending, thinking carefully before purchasing and focusing on what truly enhances my family’s quality of life.
Approximately 68% of Americans carry debt, excluding mortgages.
Why This Matters: Money should empower you, not weigh you down. When you see it as a resource to create the life you want, you make smarter choices that reflect your values. Think of the difference between mindless spending and intentional investment—one leaves you with stuff, and the other with a life you genuinely enjoy. Living abroad has made that shift possible for me, and it can for you, too.
3. Prioritizing Health and Well-being
Since moving, I’ve found it easier to stay active and prioritize healthy choices. In Copenhagen, for example, we rode bikes everywhere. Access to fresh, affordable food and a lifestyle that encourages physical activity has helped me focus on my health in a way I hadn’t before.
Why This Matters: Health isn’t just about fitness; it’s about creating a lifestyle that keeps you energized, fulfilled, and ready for new experiences. When you live somewhere that naturally supports well-being, it becomes part of who you are. This shift to prioritizing my health has made me a better parent, partner, and person, and it can do the same for you.
4. Openness to New Experiences
Moving abroad has given me a newfound openness to change. I’m no longer attached to one location, and I embrace the adventure of experiencing new cultures, whether by moving or visiting. Living in three different countries has made me more adaptable and resilient.
Why This Matters: Being open to change brings a sense of freedom and possibility. It allows you to grow, learn, and discover things about yourself that you never would in a familiar setting. When you let go of the fear of change, you start to see each new experience as an opportunity. Imagine the growth that awaits you when you embrace life outside your comfort zone.
5. Accepting Support from Others
As someone who used to be fiercely independent, moving to a supportive community in Qatar has taught me the value of accepting help. People are incredibly generous with their time and support here, and I’ve learned to open myself up to that.
Why This Matters: Leaning on others can be transformative. When you open yourself to a supportive community, you build deeper relationships and create a network that uplifts you. Learning to accept help isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a way to grow stronger and build connections that make life richer.
6. Rediscovering What Matters Most
Living abroad has reconnected me with my core values. The slower pace, diverse cultures, and focus on well-being have helped me rediscover what truly matters to me—health, family, and meaningful work. I no longer feel pressured by external expectations; instead, I live in alignment with my own goals and values.
Why This Matters: When you strip away distractions and focus on what matters most, you find a clearer sense of purpose and joy. Imagine having the space to pursue the life you want rather than the one you’re expected to have. Living abroad has given me that gift, which you can experience, too.
7. Redefining Success on My Terms
Leaving the U.S. allowed me to redefine success for myself. I no longer chase career milestones that don’t align with my values. Instead, I prioritize balance, personal growth, and experiences that enrich my life and my family’s lives. Success is now about living fully, not just working more.
Why This Matters: Redefining success allows you to live authentically and aligned with your values and goals. When you stop chasing someone else’s definition of success, you find freedom, fulfillment, and a sense of pride in the life you’re building. Moving abroad has helped me see that success isn’t a destination; it’s the journey.
My Hope for You
Moving abroad may seem like a big step, but it can transform your life in ways you can’t yet imagine.
My hope is that by sharing my journey, you’ll feel inspired to explore the possibility of a life lived on your own terms—a life where you set the pace, define success, and create the freedom and joy you deserve.
Here’s to new adventures and the courage to make them happen!